According to Adat Perpatih, marriage within a clan is prohibited. In Adat Perpatih, cousin marriage is preferred, especially between a woman and her father's sister's son. marriages are usually arranged by a representative of the family. Young Married couples usually live with the wife's mother or another of the wife's relatives. the woman is expected to manage both a career and the home. Land is owned collectively by the older women, but decisions regarding land usage are made by consensus, with an elected male elder presiding. many Minangkabau men leave home seeking wealth and respect.
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| The costume that the bride and the groom of Minangkabau's wear |
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| minangkabau woman's wedding diadem. the bride of Minagkabau wears it during her wedding day |